For generations, healers and medicine women have carried the imprint of saviourhood - which is the belief that it is your job to hold, fix, rescue, or ensure completion of other people’s healing.

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Saviourhood is often mistaken for kindness or devotion - and while our service does always hold the energy of both, it is enmeshed with a collective survival wound that is tied to martyrdom & servitude - and manifests as a felt responsibility for someone else’s health and life, as well as an unconscious need to be needed.

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The saviourhood wound tells the body that:

• letting go equals danger or failure

• responsibility equals safety

• being needed equals belonging

• rescuing equals worth​

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While your service comes from a beautiful space, your nervous system may be carrying a hidden contract that makes you feel responsible for others.

In this online ceremony, we journey to the root of the saviourhood wound - back to the stories, systems, and lineages that conditioned healers to become the emotional carriers, the regulators, the rescuers, and the ones who hold it all together.

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We honour the generations of women who were forced to hold others for survival - the ones who parented too young, mediated conflict, carried community grief, or became the steady presence when no one else could.

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And we give space for what they were never allowed to feel: the exhaustion, the fear, the pressure, the grief of never being able to stop - however it may show up.

Through guided ceremony, embodiment, and intentional ritual, we will begin to dissolve the subconscious contracts that keep you/us:

• over-attaching to outcomes

• rescuing instead of holding sovereign space

• carrying responsibility that isn’t ours

• feeling guilty when others struggle

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This journey will not make you less caring, but rather it will liberate your care from distortion.

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Your medicine is most powerful when it is detached from the outcome, when you are not holding what belongs to another soul, and when you are resourcing yourself as deeply as you resource others.

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